A year ago this week, Rachel’s world was turned upside down. What started as little signs — her dad feeling a bit confused, forgetful, and not quite himself — soon became something no family expects to face: a brain tumour diagnosis.
In this raw and honest story, Rachel opens up about the whirlwind of emotions, the precious moments with her dad, and how she’s channelling her pain into something positive. Supported by the love of family and friends, Rachel — along with her husband and children — is taking on the Yorkshire 3 Peaks Challenge together on 14th August 2025, while Rachel herself is preparing to run the 2025 Great North Run solo in September. Between these two incredible challenges, over £2,000 has already been raised to help make a difference. It’s a story about love, loss, and finding strength in the toughest of times — and a tribute to a dad who would have been so proud.
In Rachel’s own words:
A year ago this week, our world turned upside down. On our lovely holiday in Wales with my incredible parents, my dad started to act a little out of the ordinary. Nothing major, just a bit confused, a little forgetful and his driving wasn’t quite right. That was it, no headaches, no pain, nothing major. To be honest, I put it down to age and maybe stress (he was 73 and a very busy deacon, so he was very busy with his parish work).
My mam sensibly rang 111 when they got home, thinking maybe he had a water infection, as he was quite muddled. A few days later, thanks to the incredible staff at the RVI in Newcastle, we quickly got his test results back and were floored to hear he had a brain tumour. Having lost his brother to the same thing a couple of years before, my dad took it very seriously. He had to stop driving, we all surrounded him with love and patience and helped wherever needed.
He was well enough to potter around and even officiated at his granddaughter’s wedding a few weeks later. His confusion was the biggest symptom, things were just harder to process. We’re so incredibly lucky that he never had the scary symptoms that you hear about, no pain at all. A few weeks later we got the horrific news that there was nothing else that could be done and to expect this nightmare to only last a few more weeks. It was just 10 very short days from that prognosis to losing our incredible dad, peacefully, holding my hand.
It was painless and peaceful, for him but for us, the pain was indescribable. The speed of it all was mercy but also meant that we had very little time to process it. So, I decided to turn that pain into something positive. brainstrust is a charity that was mentioned to us at the time, although we barely had time to look into their help before it was all over. The team have been so supportive of us though, through emails and the great social media team. I started with walking a mile every day in October 2024, getting out and clearing my head, whilst raising money for a good cause. Our family and friends were quick to support us with donations. I then asked my husband and children of they wanted to plan for a really big challenge, something to focus on.
So, on the 14th August 2025, we will be taking on the Yorkshire 3 Peaks Challenge. 24 miles and 3 mountains…it’s a good job it’s for a good cause! So far we’ve raised £1,500 and counting. My dad was a massive advocate for charity work and thinking of others, I think this is exactly the type of thing that he’d approve of. If doing this helps other families going through brain tumour diagnosis, then it’s worth every step, every blister and every tear!
To donate to Rachel’s fundraiser, click here: Rachel Prior is fundraising for brainstrust