As part of our 2023 Wear Grey campaign, we had the privilege of working with many dedicated fundraisers who shared their personal stories and experiences.
We’d like to share a particularly moving story from one of our supporters, Suzanne Barritt. Suzanne joined our campaign in memory of their father, who sadly passed away from a brain tumour on 21 September 2023.
My Dad Ronnie Carroll got diagnosed in August 2022 with primary Small Cell Lung Cancer which had spread to the brain. That was the day that broke my dad and all our hearts. After being in shock and denial, we decided to be positive and fight. I went to every appointment with my parents so we could have a better understanding of what was going on.
We started our journey at St James Hospital in Leeds the staff were fantastic! the first part was to have Gamma knife treatment. If you don’t know what this is its where you have a metal frame attached to your skull so that you can be placed in position to have radiotherapy. My dad took selfies of this to show us. When we found out that he had small cell lung cancer which is the most aggressive type which spreads rapidly, which is often detected too late. My dad went through numerous Chemotherapy and immunotherapy, of which he never complained once!
The prognosis wasn’t good he was given 6-9 months with treatment, it was like living with a ticking time bomb. We decided as a family to make as many special memories as we could so we went away on weekends, fed deer’s, helicopter ride, car picnics, days out, candlelit concert, family holiday etc they say to make memories as you can.
By September 2023 my dad’s condition declined rapidly after we were told that there was no further treatment, we got referred to the Pallative Care Team. Initially we didn’t really see the Nurse that much but then my dad’s mobility deteriorated that much we had to have a hospital bed and carers 4 times a day. Within 13 days my dad’s main motivation was to get out of bed into a chair, then wheelchair and to go to his local for a beer! We never reached this not for the lack of trying. He lost his battle on the 21st September with his family around him. He was immensely brave and endured 21 tumours, gamma knife treatment, chemo, immunotherapy and 6 seizures without complaining once!! I’m lost without him.
It seemed appropriate that whilst planning his funeral it was during brainstrust awareness week that we asked for donations. We raised just over £581.00!
Suzanne’s husband recently completed the 2024 Edinburgh Half Marathon raising an incredible £1,327.50 for brainstrust.
We are incredibly grateful to Suzanne and family for their unwavering support and commitment. Their efforts not only honor their loved one but also help us continue providing essential resources and support to those affected by brain tumours.