We know that a death caused by a brain tumour is different. The uniqueness and changes that come from dying of brain tumour mean that bereavement begins before the point of death. Whilst it is normal to mourn these changes, expressing this loss can be difficult while their loved one is living, and people often feel guilty about having such feelings. It is important to remember that relief can be felt that the person is no longer alive and that the grieving process started at diagnosis. Come and talk to people that understand.